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As parents we think we have it covered when it comes to protecting our kids. We teach them right from wrong and how to call 999 in an emergency. We teach them about stranger danger and enrol them into karate lessons to ensure that they have the simple tools to defend themselves, should they ever be in a situation where they need to physically protect themselves. But in this day and age, that no longer seems to cut the mustard! The internet is everywhere, we cannot escape it. Our children use it in school, at home, and as a form of socialising with their friends.
My husband and I had a conversation when my daughter was born (she is now nearly nine and my son is nearly seven) where we decided that we would just not allow our children to have any form of internet based toy or device until they were much older- I think we agreed on 18 at the time, only to have the tablet strapped to the back of the passenger head rest playing a well know children’s TV app for every car journey we took no matter how short, from when my daughter was three months old. Oh, how the mighty fall…
Fast forward to two years later, my daughter has now become well versed in all things tablet. She can recite the alphabet perfectly, albeit in an American accent. Her fine motor skills are on point, due to the amount of scrolling she does to access all of her many apps, and I am satisfied that I have done the correct amount of due diligence to ensure that all of her apps are child friendly and kiddie safe.
One day, my daughter was playing on the floor and I had popped her favourite children’s TV app on her tablet while I folded the laundry and did a few chores. Peppa Pig was playing and I realised after about thirty minutes or so that Peppa didn’t sound quite right, so I looked at the tablet. I am sure you can all relate, but I tend not to actually watch the shows my children have on the TV or on their tablets. My son has watched about one hundred episodes of paw patrol, I could not tell you a single name of one of the characters.
I looked at my daughter’s tablet and to my horror, Peppa had a stream of blood gushing out each of her eyes, holding up a knife and trying to inflict serious harm on poor daddy pig! What?! This was a child friendly, kiddie safe app! I was horrified! She watched Peppa Pig all the time on this particular children’s TV app, how many times had she watched similar inappropriate stories, all while I was with her in the very same room? It made me realise just how quietly dangerous the internet can really be, and how conscious as parents we need to be when allowing our children to use it.
I have since wisened up to the reality that the internet although great for many things, when it comes to my children, is something I allow with caution and I ensure that I am truly present whenever they are on it. Many sites claim to be kiddie safe, and many are. However, there are some very clever individuals who are able to infiltrate even the safest app and device in order to do harm.
As parents, sadly it is no longer enough just to do our due diligence. We need to be proactive in checking up on what our children are doing on line, having open discussions about who they are interacting with and what they are exposing themselves to. The internet can be an exciting place, filled with a never-ending fountain of knowledge and wonder. However, we can’t become too complacent thinking that we have all bases covered, because I have learnt that the evil Peppa Pigs of the internet world, can quite easily still slip through!